Events & Parties in Tampa

Below you will find all upcoming lifestyle events and parties happening in Tampa this month across Eyz Wide Shut, Caliente Resort and Paradise Lakes. New events are added here on the 1st of every month.

Important tips before you begin:

TIP #1: Want to take a sneak peek at the guest list of an event? Click here to sign up for a free SDC account (no credit card necessary). Once logged in, navigate to Parties & Events, enter your location, select the event and you’ll be able to view the profiles of everyone planning on attending the parties and events listed below!

TIP #2: Once you’ve signed up for SDC, we recommend logging on to the website directly from your mobile phone, laptop or desktop computer versus using their dedicated smartphone app. While the app seems convenient, the functionality is actually quite limited. Visiting the SDC website directly from a browser is a much better experience with full functionality to view profiles, events and photos that you cannot access via the app.

July 2026

Please note that this page features the most popular events and parties across three venues (Caliente, Eyz Wide Shut & Paradise Lakes Resort. To access the full list of lifestyle events happening this month, be sure to subscribe to our free monthly newsletter and each month you’ll receive an email packed with all of the best lifestyle parties happening in and around Tampa! Join today and become a part of our thriving community!

25 upcoming events

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Caliente Resort

Stars, Stripes & Southern Nights – Ladies Night 7/3/2026

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Special:Free Country Line Dance Lessons with Regina 7pm – 8pm

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Stars & Stripes fashions encouraged

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Eyz Wide Shut

Explosions After Dark – Disco Country Night 7/3/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Los

Attire:Sexy Country/Western, Glitter/Sparkle, Hats Allowed, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Caliente Resort

Baby You’re a Firework! – Patriotic Power Rager 7/4/2026

Main event:Pete Lee Show – 10pm – 12am (EDM DJing meets world’s only EDM Drummer!)

DJ:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & Midnight – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Red, White & Bass

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Eyz Wide Shut

Fireworks & Foreplay – Ladies Night 7/4/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Xavier

Attire:Sexy Red/White/Blue, Sparkles/Glitter, Business Casual, No Nudity/No Hats, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Pride & Poly Goth Night 7/9/2026

Bar:6pm – 2am

Playrooms:9pm – 1am (last full access entry at 11:30pm)

Theme:Tampa’s Most Unique LGBT+ Goth Party

Attire:Goth/Alt, No Dresscode Enforced, Casual/No Nudity, Hats Allowed, 21+ Entry

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Caliente Resort

Wild Temptation – Animal Print Theme Night 7/10/2026

Host:Kasidie.com

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Unleash Your Wildside, Animal print encouraged

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Eyz Wide Shut

Sugar, We’re Goin’ Down – Emo Night 7/10/2026

Host:The Suncoast Sinners

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Los

Attire:Black/White/Checker, Skinny Jeans, Eyeliner, Studded Belts, Vans/Converse, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Paradise Lakes

Pasties & Panties Weekend 7/10–7/12/2026

Friday:BYODJ – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: 3 Foot Circle (live) | 8pm: DJT1 @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Carl Motyka | 7pm: Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Caliente Resort

Foam Fantasy – Pool Party 7/11/2026

Host:S.U.E. (Sexually Unique Events)

Pool party:Poolside 1pm – 5pm

Live:Nathan Bliss – Main Event Poolside 1pm – 5pm

Amenities:Foam Party, Poolside Bar & Grill, Full Bar – Soaked in Foam, Drenched in Vibes

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Caliente Resort

Electric Glow – EDM Festival 7/11/2026

Host:S.U.E. (Sexually Unique Events)

Nightclub:8pm – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJs:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am | Nathan Bliss Main Event 10pm – 1am

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Glow Hard or Go Home!

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Eyz Wide Shut

Goth Night 7/11/2026

Host:The Suncoast Sinners

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Xavier

Attire:Black, Fishnets, Lace, Leather, Casual Business, No Nudity/Goth Style Hats Only, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Caliente Resort

The Frill is On! – Ladies Night 7/16/2026

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Special:Ladies Drink Free 8pm – 10pm (House Wines & Wells)

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Ruffles, lace & frilly fashions encouraged

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Caliente Resort

What’s Your Emoji – Nighttime Pool Party 7/17/2026

Host:Swing.com

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

Live music:Crownz – Poolside Stage 8:30pm – 12:30am

Afterparty:Grotto Bar with Josh

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Poolside Stage, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Eyz Wide Shut

Hot Wife Latin Night 7/17/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:Tony Platinum

Attire:Sexy, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Paradise Lakes

Beach Party Blowout! 7/17–7/19/2026

Host:PLAyFL Events

Features:Clothing Optional Resort, Indoor/Outdoor Play Areas, Indoor/Outdoor DJs

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Caliente Resort

Twisted Wonderland – The Circus Reveal (Summerween 2026) 7/18/2026

Nightclub:Doors open 8pm

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJs:Resident DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am | DJ Klutch 10pm – 1am

Special:Costume Contest at Midnight – Win 2 Halloween Tickets | Halloween 2026 Theme Reveal Night!

Amenities:Stunning Performers, Dark Circus Vibes, Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Circus Passes Available Online

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Eyz Wide Shut

All White Blacklight Night 7/18/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:All White, Sexy/Fishnets/Lingerie, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:SLS.com discount available, Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Caliente Resort

Sexy Fringe – Ladies Night 7/23/2026

Nightclub:Doors open 8pm – 1am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJ:DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Special:Ladies Drink Free 8pm – 10pm (House Wine & Wells)

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Fringe fashions encouraged

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Eyz Wide Shut

Sinners & Saints 7/24/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:Angel Costume/White/Silver or Devil Costume/Red/Black, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Paradise Lakes

TLC’s Teddies & Thigh Highs Weekend 7/24–7/26/2026

Host:Jim & Lindsay

Friday:BYO-DJ – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Midnight Blue (live) | 8pm: DJ Rockin’ Ronnie @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Carolynn Street | 7pm: Karaoke w/ KJ Hunt

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Caliente Resort

Super Heroes vs Villains 7/25/2026

Host:Freakish

Nightclub:8pm – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJs:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am | DJ Philly Phil 10pm – 1am

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Show Me Your Super Power!

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Eyz Wide Shut

Hot Ghoul Summerween Party 7/25/2026

Host:Alicia, Dante & Richanne

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:Halloween Costumes, Sexy Costumes, Black or Summer Vibes, No Nudity, Soft Props Only/No Weapons

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Caliente Resort

Freaky in the Tiki – Pool Party 7/31/2026

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

Live music:The Shakes Society – Poolside Stage 8:30pm – 12:30am

Afterparty:Let’s Get Lei’d with Josh at the Grotto Bar

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Poolside Stage, Full Bar – Tropical & island fashions encouraged

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Eyz Wide Shut

Short Skirts & Sundresses Party 7/31/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:Tony Platinum

Attire:Short Skirts, Sundresses, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Paradise Lakes

Sheer Madness Weekend 7/31–8/2/2026

Friday:BYODJ @ Club Reveal – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Lett’s Duet | 8pm: DJ T1 @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: The Unwinding | 7pm: Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

📍 8504 E. Adamo Drive, Tampa

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Eyz Wide Shut

Explosions After Dark – Disco Country Night 7/3/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Los

Attire:Sexy Country/Western, Glitter/Sparkle, Hats Allowed, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Fireworks & Foreplay – Ladies Night 7/4/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Xavier

Attire:Sexy Red/White/Blue, Sparkles/Glitter, Business Casual, No Nudity/No Hats, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Pride & Poly Goth Night 7/9/2026

Bar:6pm – 2am

Playrooms:9pm – 1am (last full access entry at 11:30pm)

Theme:Tampa’s Most Unique LGBT+ Goth Party

Attire:Goth/Alt, No Dresscode Enforced, Casual/No Nudity, Hats Allowed, 21+ Entry

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Sugar, We’re Goin’ Down – Emo Night 7/10/2026

Host:The Suncoast Sinners

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Los

Attire:Black/White/Checker, Skinny Jeans, Eyeliner, Studded Belts, Vans/Converse, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Goth Night 7/11/2026

Host:The Suncoast Sinners

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Xavier

Attire:Black, Fishnets, Lace, Leather, Casual Business, No Nudity/Goth Style Hats Only, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Hot Wife Latin Night 7/17/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:Tony Platinum

Attire:Sexy, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

All White Blacklight Night 7/18/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:All White, Sexy/Fishnets/Lingerie, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:SLS.com discount available, Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Sinners & Saints 7/24/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:Angel Costume/White/Silver or Devil Costume/Red/Black, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Hot Ghoul Summerween Party 7/25/2026

Host:Alicia, Dante & Richanne

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:Halloween Costumes, Sexy Costumes, Black or Summer Vibes, No Nudity, Soft Props Only/No Weapons

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Short Skirts & Sundresses Party 7/31/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:Tony Platinum

Attire:Short Skirts, Sundresses, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

📍 21240 Gran Via Blvd, Land O Lakes, FL

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Caliente Resort

Stars, Stripes & Southern Nights – Ladies Night 7/3/2026

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Special:Free Country Line Dance Lessons with Regina 7pm – 8pm

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Stars & Stripes fashions encouraged

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Caliente Resort

Baby You’re a Firework! – Patriotic Power Rager 7/4/2026

Main event:Pete Lee Show – 10pm – 12am

DJ:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & Midnight – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Red, White & Bass

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Caliente Resort

Wild Temptation – Animal Print Theme Night 7/10/2026

Host:Kasidie.com

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Unleash Your Wildside, Animal print encouraged

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Caliente Resort

Foam Fantasy – Pool Party 7/11/2026

Host:S.U.E. (Sexually Unique Events)

Pool party:Poolside 1pm – 5pm

Live:Nathan Bliss – Main Event Poolside 1pm – 5pm

Amenities:Foam Party, Poolside Bar & Grill, Full Bar – Soaked in Foam, Drenched in Vibes

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Caliente Resort

Electric Glow – EDM Festival 7/11/2026

Host:S.U.E. (Sexually Unique Events)

Nightclub:8pm – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJs:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am | Nathan Bliss Main Event 10pm – 1am

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Glow Hard or Go Home!

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Caliente Resort

The Frill is On! – Ladies Night 7/16/2026

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Special:Ladies Drink Free 8pm – 10pm (House Wines & Wells)

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Ruffles, lace & frilly fashions encouraged

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Caliente Resort

What’s Your Emoji – Nighttime Pool Party 7/17/2026

Host:Swing.com

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

Live music:Crownz – Poolside Stage 8:30pm – 12:30am

Afterparty:Grotto Bar with Josh

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Poolside Stage, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Caliente Resort

Twisted Wonderland – The Circus Reveal (Summerween 2026) 7/18/2026

Nightclub:Doors open 8pm

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJs:Resident DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am | DJ Klutch 10pm – 1am

Special:Costume Contest at Midnight – Win 2 Halloween Tickets | Halloween 2026 Theme Reveal Night!

Amenities:Stunning Performers, Dark Circus Vibes, Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Circus Passes Available Online

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Caliente Resort

Sexy Fringe – Ladies Night 7/23/2026

Nightclub:Doors open 8pm – 1am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJ:DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Special:Ladies Drink Free 8pm – 10pm (House Wine & Wells)

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Fringe fashions encouraged

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Caliente Resort

Super Heroes vs Villains 7/25/2026

Host:Freakish

Nightclub:8pm – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

DJs:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am | DJ Philly Phil 10pm – 1am

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar – Show Me Your Super Power!

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Caliente Resort

Freaky in the Tiki – Pool Party 7/31/2026

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

Live music:The Shakes Society – Poolside Stage 8:30pm – 12:30am

Afterparty:Let’s Get Lei’d with Josh at the Grotto Bar

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Poolside Stage, Full Bar – Tropical & island fashions encouraged

📍 2001 Paradise Lakes Blvd, Lutz, FL

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Paradise Lakes

Pasties & Panties Weekend 7/10–7/12/2026

Friday:BYODJ – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: 3 Foot Circle (live) | 8pm: DJT1 @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Carl Motyka | 7pm: Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Paradise Lakes

Beach Party Blowout! 7/17–7/19/2026

Host:PLAyFL Events

Features:Clothing Optional Resort, Indoor/Outdoor Play Areas, Indoor/Outdoor DJs

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Paradise Lakes

TLC’s Teddies & Thigh Highs Weekend 7/24–7/26/2026

Host:Jim & Lindsay

Friday:BYO-DJ – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Midnight Blue (live) | 8pm: DJ Rockin’ Ronnie @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Carolynn Street | 7pm: Karaoke w/ KJ Hunt

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Paradise Lakes

Sheer Madness Weekend 7/31–8/2/2026

Friday:BYODJ @ Club Reveal – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Lett’s Duet | 8pm: DJ T1 @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: The Unwinding | 7pm: Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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FAQ

1. How do I find out about upcoming swinger parties and events in Tampa?

The best way is to bookmark this page — we update it monthly with all upcoming lifestyle events across Eyz Wide Shut, Caliente and Paradise Lakes. You can also follow our Facebook page OR subscribe to our free monthly newsletter to get the full event calendar delivered to your inbox each month.

2. Do I need to be a member to attend lifestyle events in Tampa?

It depends on the venue. Eyz Wide Shut operates as a nightclub and charges per-event entry — no membership required for most events. Caliente Resort and Paradise Lakes are private clubs that require membership for full access, though both offer trial or guest options for first-time visitors. Always check the venue’s website before attending.

3. Can I see who else is attending a Tampa lifestyle event before I go?

Yes! This is one of the best kept secrets in the lifestyle scene. All you have to do is Create a free SDC account (no credit card required to sign up), navigate to Parties & Events, find the event you’re interested in and you can browse the guest list before you commit.

4. What is the dress code at Tampa lifestyle events?

Most Tampa lifestyle events have a theme nights or dress codes which are listed on the event flyers. At Eyz Wide Shut, themed attire is strongly encouraged but rarely enforced. At Caliente and Paradise Lakes, presenting yourself well is part of the culture. When in doubt, try to follow the theme and at the very least, always dress to impress.

5. Are Tampa lifestyle events couples only?

Not always. While couples make up the majority of attendees at most Tampa lifestyle events, single ladies are warmly welcomed at virtually every venue and event. Single men are allowed at select events, usually on certain nights of the week depending on the venue. Please note that single males generally pay a higher entry fee and venues can be quite selective on who they allow attend events. Some events are couples and single ladies only but it’s always smart to double check the specific event details before heading out for the night.