Events & Parties in Tampa

Below you will find all upcoming lifestyle events and parties happening in Tampa this month across Eyz Wide Shut, Caliente Resort and Paradise Lakes. New events are added here on the 1st of every month.

Important tips before you begin:

TIP #1: Want to take a sneak peek at the guest list of an event? Click here to sign up for a free SDC account (no credit card necessary). Once logged in, navigate to Parties & Events, enter your location, select the event and you’ll be able to view the profiles of everyone planning on attending the parties and events listed below!

TIP #2: Once you’ve signed up for SDC, we recommend logging on to the website directly from your mobile phone, laptop or desktop computer versus using their dedicated smartphone app. While the app seems convenient, the functionality is actually quite limited. Visiting the SDC website directly from a browser is a much better experience with full functionality to view profiles, events and photos that you cannot access via the app.

August 2026

Please note that this page features the most popular events and parties across three venues (Caliente, Eyz Wide Shut & Paradise Lakes Resort. To access the full list of lifestyle events happening this month, be sure to subscribe to our free monthly newsletter and each month you’ll receive an email packed with all of the best lifestyle parties happening in and around Tampa! Join today and become a part of our thriving community!

21 upcoming events

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Caliente Resort

Summer Vibes 8/1/2026

Main event:Frisky Business w/ DJ Frisky – 10pm – 1am

DJ:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

Amenities:Food, Drinks, Dance, Play – Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Eyz Wide Shut

Fuego y Seda – Latin Night 8/1/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Xavier

Attire:Silk Dresses/Shirts, Button Downs, Business Casual, Lingerie/Sexy, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Paradise Lakes

Nothing But Net – First Weekend 8/7–8/9/2026

Fri & Sat:DJ Plezure @ Club Reveal – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Chardonnay Red (live) | 25% Off Hotel Rooms Fri & Sat

Sunday:Noon: Carl Motyka | 7pm: Sunday Sunset Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Caliente Resort

Cowboys & Curves – Country Ladies Night 8/7/2026

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Special:Free Line Dancing with Regina 7pm – 8pm

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Eyz Wide Shut

70s Boho Party 8/7/2026

Host:The Suncoast Sinners

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:70s Hippie, Boho Sexy, Flowers/Pastels, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Caliente Resort

Summertime Fetish – Theme Night 8/8/2026

Host:Lust Pleasure Parties

Main stage:TL Jentgens – 9:30pm – 12:30am

DJ:DJ Ian 8pm – 9:30pm & 12:30am – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Eyz Wide Shut

Straight A’s & Bad Behavior – Naughty School Girl Night 8/8/2026

Host:The Suncoast Sinners

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Special:Drunken Spelling Bee 10:30pm

Attire:Short Skirts, School Girl/Nerd Attire, Business Casual, No Nudity/No Hats, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Paradise Lakes

Come As U R Wknd 8/14–8/16/2026

Friday:BYO-DJ @ Club Reveal – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Wade Slater Duo | 8pm: DJ Chris Craze @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Pete Beschart Duo | 7pm: Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Caliente Resort

Tape Me Up And Tease Me! 8/14/2026

Host:Kasidie.com

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Eyz Wide Shut

Jersey Night 8/14/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:Tony Platinum

Attire:Jerseys of Any Kind, Business Casual, Hats Allowed, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Caliente Resort

Back to Shhhschool – The Naughty Schoolgirl’s Best Kept Secret 8/15/2026

Host:S.U.E. (Sexually Unique Events)

Special guest:Serafin – Poolside 1pm – 5pm | Nightclub 10pm – 1am

DJ:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

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Eyz Wide Shut

Noche Rosa – Latin Night Pink Party 8/15/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Los

Attire:Pink!, Sexy/Fishnets/Lingerie, Business Casual, No Nudity/No Hats, Dress to Impress

Amenities:SLS.com discount available, Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Paradise Lakes

Anything But Clothes Weekend 8/21–8/23/2026

Friday:Flashback Friday w/T1 – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Lett’s Duet | 8pm: DJ T1 @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Midnight Blue | 7pm: Sunday Sunset Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Caliente Resort

H2Oasis – Liquid Luxury Night Pool Party 8/21/2026

Main event:Pavanis Band – Poolside Stage 8:30pm – 12:30am

Piano bar:Live 6:30pm – 10:30pm

Afterparty:Grotto Bar with Josh

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Poolside Stage, Full Bar – A Night Drenched in Wet Indulgence

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Eyz Wide Shut

Burn Book After Dark – Y2K 2000s Night 8/21/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:Tony Platinum

Attire:Short Skirts, Pink/Plastic/2000s Vibe, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Caliente Resort

Midnight at the Oasis – Arabian Nights 8/22/2026

Host:Freakish

DJs:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am | DJ Tatiana 10pm – 1am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

Amenities:Silk, Spice, Sparkle, Seduction – Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Eyz Wide Shut

Decades Dancefloor – 80s/90s Night 8/22/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:80s/90s Vibe, Denim/Skater/Rock Shirts, Scrunchies/Neons, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Paradise Lakes

TLC’s Pajama Party Weekend 8/28–8/30/2026

Host:Jim & Lindsay

Friday:Be Your Own DJ @ Club Reveal – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: The Little Big Show | 8pm: DJ Tricky Ricki @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Carolynn Street | 7pm: Karaoke w/ KJ Hunt

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Eyz Wide Shut

Electric Jungle – Glow Party (EDM/Techno Night) 8/28/2026

Host:The Double D’s

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Duke

Attire:Glow, Neon, Animal Prints, Business Casual, No Nudity/No Hats, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Caliente Resort

D2P Presents: Waterworks & Blue Collar Baddies 8/29/2026

Host:Down2Party Events

Pool party:Waterworks – All Hands on Deck – Poolside 1pm – 5pm

Special guest:Anthony Attalla – 8pm

Nightclub:Essential Freaks 9:30pm – 10:30pm | Headliner 10:30pm – 12:30am | DJ Ian 12:30am – Close

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Eyz Wide Shut

Neon Nashville – Country Glow Party 8/29/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Xavier

Attire:Glow, Neon, Country, Boots, Skirts, Business Casual, Hats Allowed, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

📍 8504 E. Adamo Drive, Tampa

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Eyz Wide Shut

Fuego y Seda – Latin Night 8/1/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Xavier

Attire:Silk Dresses/Shirts, Button Downs, Business Casual, Lingerie/Sexy, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

70s Boho Party 8/7/2026

Host:The Suncoast Sinners

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:70s Hippie, Boho Sexy, Flowers/Pastels, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Straight A’s & Bad Behavior – Naughty School Girl Night 8/8/2026

Host:The Suncoast Sinners

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Special:Drunken Spelling Bee 10:30pm

Attire:Short Skirts, School Girl/Nerd Attire, Business Casual, No Nudity/No Hats, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Jersey Night 8/14/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:Tony Platinum

Attire:Jerseys of Any Kind, Business Casual, Hats Allowed, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Noche Rosa – Latin Night Pink Party 8/15/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Los

Attire:Pink!, Sexy/Fishnets/Lingerie, Business Casual, No Nudity/No Hats, Dress to Impress

Amenities:SLS.com discount available, Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Burn Book After Dark – Y2K 2000s Night 8/21/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:Tony Platinum

Attire:Short Skirts, Pink/Plastic/2000s Vibe, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Decades Dancefloor – 80s/90s Night 8/22/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Rich

Attire:80s/90s Vibe, Denim/Skater/Rock Shirts, Scrunchies/Neons, Business Casual, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Electric Jungle – Glow Party (EDM/Techno Night) 8/28/2026

Host:The Double D’s

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Duke

Attire:Glow, Neon, Animal Prints, Business Casual, No Nudity/No Hats, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

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Eyz Wide Shut

Neon Nashville – Country Glow Party 8/29/2026

Nightclub:7pm – 3am

Playrooms:11pm – 4am

DJ:DJ Xavier

Attire:Glow, Neon, Country, Boots, Skirts, Business Casual, Hats Allowed, No Nudity, Dress to Impress

Amenities:Full Liquor Bar, Free Pool Tables, Private & Group Rooms, Group Dungeon

📍 21240 Gran Via Blvd, Land O Lakes, FL

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Caliente Resort

Summer Vibes 8/1/2026

Main event:Frisky Business w/ DJ Frisky – 10pm – 1am

DJ:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

Amenities:Food, Drinks, Dance, Play – Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Caliente Resort

Cowboys & Curves – Country Ladies Night 8/7/2026

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Special:Free Line Dancing with Regina 7pm – 8pm

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Caliente Resort

Summertime Fetish – Theme Night 8/8/2026

Host:Lust Pleasure Parties

Main stage:TL Jentgens – 9:30pm – 12:30am

DJ:DJ Ian 8pm – 9:30pm & 12:30am – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Caliente Resort

Tape Me Up And Tease Me! 8/14/2026

Host:Kasidie.com

Nightclub:8pm – 1am

Piano bar:6:30pm – 10:30pm

DJ:Resident DJ Ian – 8pm – 1am

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Caliente Resort

Back to Shhhschool – The Naughty Schoolgirl’s Best Kept Secret 8/15/2026

Host:S.U.E. (Sexually Unique Events)

Special guest:Serafin – Poolside 1pm – 5pm | Nightclub 10pm – 1am

DJ:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

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Caliente Resort

H2Oasis – Liquid Luxury Night Pool Party 8/21/2026

Main event:Pavanis Band – Poolside Stage 8:30pm – 12:30am

Piano bar:Live 6:30pm – 10:30pm

Afterparty:Grotto Bar with Josh

Amenities:Live Piano Bar, Poolside Stage, Full Bar – A Night Drenched in Wet Indulgence

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Caliente Resort

Midnight at the Oasis – Arabian Nights 8/22/2026

Host:Freakish

DJs:DJ Ian 8pm – 10pm & 1am – 3am | DJ Tatiana 10pm – 1am

Piano bar:7pm – 11pm

Amenities:Silk, Spice, Sparkle, Seduction – Live Piano Bar, Nightclub, Full Bar

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Caliente Resort

D2P Presents: Waterworks & Blue Collar Baddies 8/29/2026

Host:Down2Party Events

Pool party:Waterworks – All Hands on Deck – Poolside 1pm – 5pm

Special guest:Anthony Attalla – 8pm

Nightclub:Essential Freaks 9:30pm – 10:30pm | Headliner 10:30pm – 12:30am | DJ Ian 12:30am – Close

📍 2001 Paradise Lakes Blvd, Lutz, FL

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Paradise Lakes

Nothing But Net – First Weekend 8/7–8/9/2026

Fri & Sat:DJ Plezure @ Club Reveal – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Chardonnay Red (live) | 25% Off Hotel Rooms Fri & Sat

Sunday:Noon: Carl Motyka | 7pm: Sunday Sunset Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Paradise Lakes

Come As U R Wknd 8/14–8/16/2026

Friday:BYO-DJ @ Club Reveal – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Wade Slater Duo | 8pm: DJ Chris Craze @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Pete Beschart Duo | 7pm: Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Paradise Lakes

Anything But Clothes Weekend 8/21–8/23/2026

Friday:Flashback Friday w/T1 – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: Lett’s Duet | 8pm: DJ T1 @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Midnight Blue | 7pm: Sunday Sunset Karaoke

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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Paradise Lakes

TLC’s Pajama Party Weekend 8/28–8/30/2026

Host:Jim & Lindsay

Friday:Be Your Own DJ @ Club Reveal – 8pm

Saturday:Noon: The Little Big Show | 8pm: DJ Tricky Ricki @ Club Reveal

Sunday:Noon: Carolynn Street | 7pm: Karaoke w/ KJ Hunt

Amenities:Nightclub, Poolside Bar & Grill, Outdoor Entertainment

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FAQ

1. How do I find out about upcoming swinger parties and events in Tampa?

The best way is to bookmark this page — we update it monthly with all upcoming lifestyle events across Eyz Wide Shut, Caliente and Paradise Lakes. You can also follow our Facebook page OR subscribe to our free monthly newsletter to get the full event calendar delivered to your inbox each month.

2. Do I need to be a member to attend lifestyle events in Tampa?

It depends on the venue. Eyz Wide Shut operates as a nightclub and charges per-event entry — no membership required for most events. Caliente Resort and Paradise Lakes are private clubs that require membership for full access, though both offer trial or guest options for first-time visitors. Always check the venue’s website before attending.

3. Can I see who else is attending a Tampa lifestyle event before I go?

Yes! This is one of the best kept secrets in the lifestyle scene. All you have to do is Create a free SDC account (no credit card required to sign up), navigate to Parties & Events, find the event you’re interested in and you can browse the guest list before you commit.

4. What is the dress code at Tampa lifestyle events?

Most Tampa lifestyle events have a theme nights or dress codes which are listed on the event flyers. At Eyz Wide Shut, themed attire is strongly encouraged but rarely enforced. At Caliente and Paradise Lakes, presenting yourself well is part of the culture. When in doubt, try to follow the theme and at the very least, always dress to impress.

5. Are Tampa lifestyle events couples only?

Not always. While couples make up the majority of attendees at most Tampa lifestyle events, single ladies are warmly welcomed at virtually every venue and event. Single men are allowed at select events, usually on certain nights of the week depending on the venue. Please note that single males generally pay a higher entry fee and venues can be quite selective on who they allow attend events. Some events are couples and single ladies only but it’s always smart to double check the specific event details before heading out for the night.